Short-term goals

Here are some short-term goals I'd like to accomplish.
These goals could probably bring me closer to my ideal sugar arrangement(as you all know that my sugar life has not luck lately)...

-Lose 10-15 pounds
I'm 5'8,weight 140. Want a slim body that no men can resist...

-Work out atleast 3 times a week to tone my body
Need more curves and want to turn fats in to muscles.

-Have enough sleeps
7-9hrs everyday...less break outs,better skin and more efficient when dealing with things.

-Healthy diet
Definetly less sugar,lipid and salt. No more starbucks and sugar beverage.No snacks. Less carbonate,more vegetables. Do not consume any food after 8pm.

-Read more
Knowledge is power.Books,newspaper,magazines...etc,absorb as much as I could.More topics to talk about when meeting a SD and make one sounds educated.

And I'd like to thank the sugar community we have here,it's amazing! Definitely secure our time&safety!
Now...Someone gives me some sugars♥ Best wishes on your seraches,boys and gals!

Irresponsible/cheap SD

Haven't been updated a while now,hope you've been receiving some sugars lately♥
So things aren't going too smoothly for me these days. My first meet up with Mr.S was fairly well.Went out for lunch,wandering in a park, and did a little shopping,everything went perfectly.Then he told me he'd like to be in an arrangement with me,I told him my expectation for the allowance,he agreed rapidly and said he'd like to pay as we meet.Everything seemed great and lovely,until the end of our second meet up.And yes, we did have sex the second time we see each other,again,everything was good and he was still being a gentleman.

It was pouring-rain that day,Mr.S told me that he couldn't give me a ride home as he had a meeting later on.HE SUGGESTED me to take TRANSPORTATION all the way home. Okay,first of all,it takes me an hour and half to take transit.Secondly,it was POURING RAIN and I was in my killer-heels(Just so you all know,vancouver shall really change its name to raincouver,as it showers so very much).Thirdly,for god's sake,you're a SD ,who's supposed to carry your SB and be considerate but instead you'd ask me to take transportation for an hour and half to the lower mainland? When he suggested that he'd drop me off at a skytrain station,I told him I'd take skytrain to the last station with no problem but I do have some issues to take the bus from there to my house because the bus only comes once an hour,therefore I asked him for $50 for cab.He replied: ''I'm not trying to be cheap, but I already spent quiet an amount of money for the hotel,dinner and your allowance,I think it'd be better if you take transit.'' LOL,tell me how's that not cheap? It seemed like asking for $50 bucks for cab is too much.

The disaster has not ended yet.Another incident was while we were having sex,he was very intense and accidentally ripped off the condom.He told me to get the'morning after'pills ASAP,so I could decrease my chance of getting pregnant,the last contraception.I went to the doctor the next day and got my Prescription.I paid quiet a bit for the pills and I thought I should've told Mr.S and had him to pay for it.I emailed him today about the pills and he replied with a sadface,THAT'S IT.He showed no intension of knowing the price and etc. Now I'm still having the 15% risk of getting pregnant,with all the cocerns and frustration,I'm beyond exhausred.

I'm now awfully stressed and definitely not seeing this man anymore what so ever. All I can say is he's an irresponsible/cheap SD,oh let me rephrase it- he's just a cheap horny old man.I have no respect and do not want to waste my time on a man who's stingy and inconsiderate.I could really care less,clearly he does not deserve any piece of me.This is my first sugar relationship,which lasted for two weeks with a messy ending.
Have you ever met any cheap/irresponsible SD? How did you deal with it?and how would you know if the SD is a cheapskate beforehand?

PS. I've met up with Mr.realestate,it was awkward but funny.I'm possibly seeing him this weekend,let's hope he's not another time waster!

Unexpected!!

Hi sugars,how's your weekend so far? I have news...yesterday,a SD that I have associated a while ago just randomly emailed me and asked if I were back in town now(as I flew to asia two months ago and just got back in the beginning of Oct),and gave me his local number. So I decided to text him, and shortly we arranged to meet up sometimes next week. We live in different cities,it takes him about 40 minutes drive to reach my town,I suggested that we could perhaps meet up at downtown,where that's in the middle of our cities,but Mr.S(let's just call him Mr.S for now) said he'd be no problem to make a trip to the lower mainland to see me.He asked my schedule for next week and told me that he'll let me know whenever he's planning to come see me.

Mr.S texted me earlier tonight and asked if I'd like to have a coffee with him tomorrow,he suggested that we'll meet up around noon and see how well we click,if it went smoothly,we could possibly start the arrangement and sepnd the rest of the day together. Wow okay,I really didnt expect it'd be that soon,maybe not after two days? I thought he probably wouldnt have texted till the middle of next week. Haha,I'm now having butterflies in my stomach,very nervous and excited at the same time. woohoo this is gonna be my first time meeting up with a SD.I'm now picking up an outfit for tomorrow and creeping to bed soon,so I'll be ready for the big day!wish me luck sugars!!

Hi Sugars!

So I just started using this blog as my ''sugar journal''.I believe everyone entered this fancy multi-beneficial world for a reason;For me,I'm just simplying looking for a satisfying amount of allowance,not I am a spoiled brat but because I'd like a worry-free lifestyle,especially when it comes to money,I need extra money for going out,bills,shopping and the rest can go in to my savings. What about you? What are you seeking in this sugar world?

PS.Next week I'm having the first meet up with this potential sugar daddy,who's 53 and a real estate agent with an annual income US$250,000+. Any advice?